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Need some personal time

Postby Mojave » 01/12/2016 2:14 AM

So I just found out my grandfather has stage 4 colon cancer. He's in ICU because he fell and something in his gut burst. He also has congestive heart failure, so he may not make it past recovering from emergency surgery to fix whatever burst to even consider treatment for the cancer. So, I need some time to myself. To those I'm in breedings with, I'll keep checking for replies and I should be able to get replies up before they expire. Just message me a reminder if it gets too close to the deadline.
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Re: Need some personal time

Postby zapdragon555 » 01/13/2016 3:08 AM

I'm so sorry, friend. :c This is terrible news all around. My deepest sympathies to you and your family--take all the time you need. I'll be sending good vibes your way. <3



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Re: Need some personal time

Postby Mojave » 01/13/2016 1:39 PM

So. Just got a call from my sister. Grandpa does NOT have cancer! Don't ask me how deep East Texas doctors misdiagnose a harmless mass with stage 4 colon cancer, but right this second I'm just happy he's going to be okay.
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Postby zapdragon555 » 01/13/2016 9:29 PM

Oh, that's wonderful news omg!! I'm so happy for you guys; I really hope they can take care of his gut and he comes out of it okay!



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Re: Need some personal time

Postby Mojave » 01/25/2016 3:12 AM

Gonna be gone for a bit. Doctors gave us false hope. It was cancer, Grandpa died this afternoon. So I'm not gonna be available for replies to my regular roleplays.
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Re: Need some personal time

Postby zapdragon555 » 01/25/2016 5:30 PM

D:

Geez. That's. Actually the worst. That's really terrible that the doctors couldn't make up their minds about it. I hope you and your family can have some peace in this time.



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Re: Need some personal time

Postby Redd » 01/25/2016 9:03 PM

I am so sorry to here that Mojave <3 My condolences to you and your family.
Look after yourself though, and we're always here if you need anything. I love yoou <3

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Re: Need some personal time

Postby Mojave » 01/31/2016 10:50 PM

Thank you both for the kind words.

I'm back in Colorado, should be able to start replying to things tomorrow. That 16 hour drive liked to have killed me this time around.
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Re: Need some personal time

Postby Mojave » 03/20/2016 1:12 PM

After two years of false alarms and close calls, my step-dad died yesterday morning. Gonna be pretty inactive for a few days, the funeral is Wednesday.
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