Ohhhhhh boy, do I agree with you, Toxic. Honestly, it continues to get more and more difficult for me to remain active on the site whenever I come back, due mainly to the slowly declining lack of activity on the site. This very subject has been on my mind constantly since I made my return several weeks ago. I've been finding myself thinking, "This site hasn't always been so dead, has it?" I'm not sure if I'm glad or not to hear that I'm not just imagining things.
As for things specifically that have been on my mind as of late:
Lack of roleplays: If it weren't for a select few users which I had interacted with previously and managed to strike up new rps and plots with, I likely wouldn't be posting this right now. It's a bit irritating and discouraging to, say, update a roleplay search thread and not get a single reply of someone even interested in your characters. I completely understand users not finding certain pets to be interesting (as I, like all of us, have looked at some peoples' pets myself and found one here or there that didn't do a single thing for my muse), but there comes a point where... Huh, I don't know, but I used to get a lot more replies to any roleplay searches. Not just mine, but I've noticed a decline in the number of offers that a lot of people have gotten.
Although, I admit, I am biased toward lifemate rps, it seems as that nearly every rp that takes place now is either lifemating, breeding, plot-related or a self rp. That makes it... really hard to find partners, honestly. What happened to open rps? We used to have tons. What happened to just hopping into an rp with no knowledge of the other party's character and seeing where it takes you? Even if it's pointless and has no aim, it's still an rp. Isn't that what we're here for? Even if it isn't an open rp, I think we need to be more open-minded in that field, and, instead of trying to find the perfect match for all of our characters (and in the end, never write a sentence about them aside from their personality/history), we should start rps just because it sounds funny or because it's cute. Who cares if your characters are totally mismatched? People are too! Who knows-- You may come up lucky and find that that dorky character you thought would make for the rp's comic relief may be the perfect match!
Intimidation: I mean this in several ways. Actually, more than several. I don't know how much some of the issues can be related with by other users, but... Well, here goes.
My age vs. others'. I know it's probably a bit silly to fret over something so trivial, but my brain chooses to remind me on a fairly regular basis that I'm one of the youngest members on the site (16, turning 17 in March). It's a bit odd I suppose, but some of the site's older members tend to intimidate me quite a bit. Is my writing good enough? (They've seen and done much better, I'm sure.) Are they judging me for my age? Do they view me as a child? I've noticed that I tend to get along with some of the younger members more easily.
Post length. I'll just mention this to say that I entirely agree with the points made prior. There are some characters which I can write pages about (Marin's eating a sandwich? Bring it on.), but there's others where I simply feel more comfortable with shorter posts. Long posts sometimes leave me drained or I feel as though I simply don't have the time. So, I'll just mark my acceptance of short posts here!
My pets (vs. others'). It seems as though a majority of peoples' "main" pets either take the form of a breedable or a custom. That's all fine and dandy-- I'm the same way! I'm unsure of whether other people are equally affected by such, but I feel quite limited in the number/type of characters I can make going by these standards. A lot of people are into lifemating, and I know there's people who can get turned off by the idea of their favorite pairing never having the ability to make pretty babies, or "wasting" a breedable by lifemating him/her to a non-breedable pet. I feel like that, as a result, could possibly tie into the rp problem. It seems to me that non-breedable pets tend to be glossed over and dismissed more than their breedable counterparts.
My ideas (vs. others'). There have been a fair number of characters that I have scrapped simply because I felt others wouldn't show the same interest in them that I did. In trying to make my characters "appealing" however, I know that I've made some of them so intricate and complicated that they're just... not characters that others want to get involved with.
IRC. Again, something I know is dumb to get intimidated by, but I haven't poked my head in the IRC in years. This probably ties a lot into the other "intimidation" issues (without any evidence, however), but I'm close to nearly no one on this site and I'm concerned that I guess... I'll say something dumb and turn people off? Or that people will judge me in general/not be interested in me.
To sum that portion up, I love the community and would love to be a bigger part of it, but I'm just so intimidated by the tiniest things. Iunno, it could just be a me problem, but I'm just pointing this stuff out in case there's others who share the same view who haven't had the courage to speak up about it/didn't think of mentioning it.
Et cetera: Just mentioning these to tie up loose ends and agree with other people;
User-hosted events: Yes. Just yes. I feel that it's really a way for people to get out of their shells and be more social and get to know one another/our writing styles better, all in a fun, relaxed atmosphere. Give me all the user-hosted events. Please. If I ever have a good idea for one, man, I will not hesitate in starting that right up.
Evelon lore. I think this has been bothering me since I joined the site, actually. Evelon is a really great place! Earth has its history, so I'm sure Evelon has its own history too! Everywhere does! Whilst I'm completely lost in the plot, my characters are all floating about and hoping they grab onto something Evelon... y. They all have a differing sense of what Evelon really is, to be honest. And I think that's great! But I know that it would definitely help some people (like me) to have more of a solid foundation for people to cling onto.
On another note, I think it would be really great if we all made an active effort to at least keep the Gossip and Chatter section going. Not only are we a community who should be socializing anyway, but socializing us gives us more chances to get to know people! Not only is that how you make friends, but that's also how new rps come about~
So here's my suggestions, summed up nice and cleanly: discuss post length with rp partners (see what the two of you life best!); start rps just because they seem fun to do, or to develop your character more (not only for the purpose of plots or pretty babies); more open rps; be less shy around other users (we're one big community, yeah!); more official Evelon lore; lots of random gossip and chatter, like the forum says!
As for things specifically that have been on my mind as of late:
Lack of roleplays: If it weren't for a select few users which I had interacted with previously and managed to strike up new rps and plots with, I likely wouldn't be posting this right now. It's a bit irritating and discouraging to, say, update a roleplay search thread and not get a single reply of someone even interested in your characters. I completely understand users not finding certain pets to be interesting (as I, like all of us, have looked at some peoples' pets myself and found one here or there that didn't do a single thing for my muse), but there comes a point where... Huh, I don't know, but I used to get a lot more replies to any roleplay searches. Not just mine, but I've noticed a decline in the number of offers that a lot of people have gotten.
Although, I admit, I am biased toward lifemate rps, it seems as that nearly every rp that takes place now is either lifemating, breeding, plot-related or a self rp. That makes it... really hard to find partners, honestly. What happened to open rps? We used to have tons. What happened to just hopping into an rp with no knowledge of the other party's character and seeing where it takes you? Even if it's pointless and has no aim, it's still an rp. Isn't that what we're here for? Even if it isn't an open rp, I think we need to be more open-minded in that field, and, instead of trying to find the perfect match for all of our characters (and in the end, never write a sentence about them aside from their personality/history), we should start rps just because it sounds funny or because it's cute. Who cares if your characters are totally mismatched? People are too! Who knows-- You may come up lucky and find that that dorky character you thought would make for the rp's comic relief may be the perfect match!
Intimidation: I mean this in several ways. Actually, more than several. I don't know how much some of the issues can be related with by other users, but... Well, here goes.
My age vs. others'. I know it's probably a bit silly to fret over something so trivial, but my brain chooses to remind me on a fairly regular basis that I'm one of the youngest members on the site (16, turning 17 in March). It's a bit odd I suppose, but some of the site's older members tend to intimidate me quite a bit. Is my writing good enough? (They've seen and done much better, I'm sure.) Are they judging me for my age? Do they view me as a child? I've noticed that I tend to get along with some of the younger members more easily.
Post length. I'll just mention this to say that I entirely agree with the points made prior. There are some characters which I can write pages about (Marin's eating a sandwich? Bring it on.), but there's others where I simply feel more comfortable with shorter posts. Long posts sometimes leave me drained or I feel as though I simply don't have the time. So, I'll just mark my acceptance of short posts here!
My pets (vs. others'). It seems as though a majority of peoples' "main" pets either take the form of a breedable or a custom. That's all fine and dandy-- I'm the same way! I'm unsure of whether other people are equally affected by such, but I feel quite limited in the number/type of characters I can make going by these standards. A lot of people are into lifemating, and I know there's people who can get turned off by the idea of their favorite pairing never having the ability to make pretty babies, or "wasting" a breedable by lifemating him/her to a non-breedable pet. I feel like that, as a result, could possibly tie into the rp problem. It seems to me that non-breedable pets tend to be glossed over and dismissed more than their breedable counterparts.
My ideas (vs. others'). There have been a fair number of characters that I have scrapped simply because I felt others wouldn't show the same interest in them that I did. In trying to make my characters "appealing" however, I know that I've made some of them so intricate and complicated that they're just... not characters that others want to get involved with.
IRC. Again, something I know is dumb to get intimidated by, but I haven't poked my head in the IRC in years. This probably ties a lot into the other "intimidation" issues (without any evidence, however), but I'm close to nearly no one on this site and I'm concerned that I guess... I'll say something dumb and turn people off? Or that people will judge me in general/not be interested in me.
To sum that portion up, I love the community and would love to be a bigger part of it, but I'm just so intimidated by the tiniest things. Iunno, it could just be a me problem, but I'm just pointing this stuff out in case there's others who share the same view who haven't had the courage to speak up about it/didn't think of mentioning it.
Et cetera: Just mentioning these to tie up loose ends and agree with other people;
User-hosted events: Yes. Just yes. I feel that it's really a way for people to get out of their shells and be more social and get to know one another/our writing styles better, all in a fun, relaxed atmosphere. Give me all the user-hosted events. Please. If I ever have a good idea for one, man, I will not hesitate in starting that right up.
Evelon lore. I think this has been bothering me since I joined the site, actually. Evelon is a really great place! Earth has its history, so I'm sure Evelon has its own history too! Everywhere does! Whilst I'm completely lost in the plot, my characters are all floating about and hoping they grab onto something Evelon... y. They all have a differing sense of what Evelon really is, to be honest. And I think that's great! But I know that it would definitely help some people (like me) to have more of a solid foundation for people to cling onto.
On another note, I think it would be really great if we all made an active effort to at least keep the Gossip and Chatter section going. Not only are we a community who should be socializing anyway, but socializing us gives us more chances to get to know people! Not only is that how you make friends, but that's also how new rps come about~
So here's my suggestions, summed up nice and cleanly: discuss post length with rp partners (see what the two of you life best!); start rps just because they seem fun to do, or to develop your character more (not only for the purpose of plots or pretty babies); more open rps; be less shy around other users (we're one big community, yeah!); more official Evelon lore; lots of random gossip and chatter, like the forum says!