by ToxicShadow » 12/20/2014 3:57 PM
My father-in-law made arrangements for my aunt-in-law to come down and see my son today. Without giving me any prior notice or asking me or my husband about it. Any visitors that do come to see my son, I tell them to come between certain hours in the morning, because that is usually when he is calm, awake and likes being interacted with. During the rest of the day, it's usually a cross between hours of feeding frenzies and long naps where I also try to nap so that I can be awake with him at night. Our aunt is still not here, and it is passed those hours. Plus, he made these arrangements without knowing our plans at all. We do everything in the morning during these hours, such as shopping and doctor's appointments. Which, you know, we had plans to go grocery shopping this morning. Luckily, we did that, because people can wait.
I don't mind visitors, of course not, but please don't make the arrangements without talking to me or my husband first. It stresses me out. :c